When Strong Women Break: The Strength They Praised Was Slowly Killing Me arrives September 15, 2026, offering an unflinching look at what happens when the woman everyone leans on finally falls apart — and what it takes to come back whole

HASLET, TX, September 15, 2026 /24-7PressRelease/ -- Dr. Shelly L. Mathewis, a nationally recognized motivational speaker, leadership scholar, and Founder and CEO of Virtue 8 Productions and Virtue 8 Publications, today announced the release of her debut memoir, When Strong Women Break: The Strength They Praised Was Slowly Killing Me.

The book confronts a reality rarely spoken aloud: that the women praised most often for their strength are frequently the ones carrying the heaviest and most invisible weight. Written in four "seasons," the memoir traces Dr. Mathewis's journey from performance to collapse to genuine rest restoration — through heartbreak carried in silence, grief that had no funeral, loneliness in rooms full of people, and a quiet season in which even God felt distant.

"For years, people called me strong, and they meant it as a compliment," said Dr. Mathewis. "What nobody could see was what that strength was costing me. I wrote this book because I know I am not the only woman who has learned to hold everything together while quietly coming apart."

When Strong Women Break arrives at a moment of growing national conversation around burnout, caregiver fatigue, and mental health — particularly among professional women and women of faith who are expected to be the steady presence in every room. Rather than offering formulas or quick fixes, the memoir sits honestly inside the breaking itself before moving toward healing.

"This is not a book about never breaking," Dr. Mathewis said. "It is a book about what is still possible after you do. Breaking is not the end of the story."

Dr. Mathewis brings an unusual dual perspective to the subject. She holds a Doctorate in Organizational Development and Leadership and leads global HR and learning strategies, developing leaders and driving cultural transformation across organizations. She is also an Adjunct Professor teaching undergraduate and graduate courses, and in 2017 she developed the Mathewis Leadership Development Series®, equipping senior leaders across the private and public sectors to lead with confidence and intentionality.

In her debut memoir, she steps out from behind those credentials and tells her own story without protection.

The book is structured across four seasons — The Weight of Strong, The Breaking, The Quiet Season, and Beauty for Ashes — and closes with a personal letter the author writes to herself. Rooted in faith and the promise of beauty for ashes, it speaks directly to readers who have been admired for their resilience while privately unraveling.

When Strong Women Break is available in paperback, hardcover, and eBook editions through Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Apple Books, Google Books, and Kobo.

• Paperback: 979-8-9968340-0-6
• Hardcover: 979-8-9968340-1-3
• eBook: 979-8-9968340-2-0

Dr. Mathewis is available for interviews, podcast appearances, speaking engagements, and book club discussions. Review copies are available upon request.

About Dr. Shelly L. Mathewis

Dr. Shelly L. Mathewis is a gifted communicator with a heart for equipping and empowering others. A sought-after motivational speaker, event host, and now published author, her life's mission is to inspire, equip, and empower everyone she encounters.

She holds a Doctorate in Organizational Development and Leadership and leads global HR and learning strategies, developing leaders and driving cultural transformation. She also serves as an Adjunct Professor, teaching undergraduate and graduate-level courses and equipping the next generation of business professionals and leaders. Her professional memberships include the Society for Human Resource Management, the Society for Industrial & Organizational Psychology, the Forbes Professional Women's Association, the National Association of Professional Women, and the Black Doctoral Network. She is a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated.

She is deeply involved in her community as a mentor, advisor, and board member with several organizations dedicated to service and empowerment.

Originally from Kansas City, Missouri, Dr. Mathewis now calls Texas home. She enjoys time with family, international travel, cheering on her beloved Kansas City Chiefs, and serving at her local church — and most of all, sharing the love of God wherever He sends her.

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